Couples Psychometric/ Assessment Test – Communication and SDC Couples Psychometric Tests 3 IMPORTANT: It is necessary to complete the forms with what you genuinely feel today, rather than what you hope to feel or what is considered right. This will help the analysis and increase the tendency to achieve your goals based on the result User Code * Gender * Male Female FIRST TEST: COMMUNICATIONS ASSESSMENT SCALE Read Instructions Below Below are statements suggesting ways you and your partner communicate in your relationship. Indicate your honest assessment of your relationship by checking the number corresponding to your option. Use the response options below as a guide in your responses. Response Options: 1=Rarely; 2= Sometimes; 3=Often; 4=Usually; 5=Always 1. Whether I think I understand my partner’s point or not, I act as if I do * 1=Rarely 2= Sometimes 3=Often 4=Usually 5=Always 2. My partner is unaware of, or ignores my gestures, advances and my other non-verbal behaviour * 1=Rarely 2= Sometimes 3=Often 4=Usually 5=Always 3. The way my partner responds to the issues I bring up makes me feel he/she is attacking me * 1=Rarely 2= Sometimes 3=Often 4=Usually 5=Always 4. My partner listens attentively regardless of her/his other engagements * 1=Rarely 2= Sometimes 3=Often 4=Usually 5=Always 5. He/she is open to new ideas * 1=Rarely 2= Sometimes 3=Often 4=Usually 5=Always 6. My partner commands me to do things * 1=Rarely 2= Sometimes 3=Often 4=Usually 5=Always 7. My partner is open to my suggestions * 1=Rarely 2= Sometimes 3=Often 4=Usually 5=Always 8. I listen to my partner * 1=Rarely 2= Sometimes 3=Often 4=Usually 5=Always 9. My partner is quick to compliment me when I do things well * 1=Rarely 2= Sometimes 3=Often 4=Usually 5=Always 10. When my partner speaks, he/she presents a positive image of me * 1=Rarely 2= Sometimes 3=Often 4=Usually 5=Always 11. My partner withholds her/his feelings toward me * 1=Rarely 2= Sometimes 3=Often 4=Usually 5=Always 12. We discuss what happens at home * 1=Rarely 2= Sometimes 3=Often 4=Usually 5=Always 13. My partner will rather work on her/his decision than ask for my opinion * 1=Rarely 2= Sometimes 3=Often 4=Usually 5=Always 14. We discuss our experiences at the end of each day * 1=Rarely 2= Sometimes 3=Often 4=Usually 5=Always 15. When my partner has neglected to treat me well, I let her/him know about it * 1=Rarely 2= Sometimes 3=Often 4=Usually 5=Always 16. We have interest in hearing about what we think of each other and our behavior * 1=Rarely 2= Sometimes 3=Often 4=Usually 5=Always SECOND TEST: SDS Listed below are a number of statements concerning personal attitudes and traits. Read each item and respond whether the statement is “True” or “False” as it pertains to you. This is not a test, so there is no right or wrong answers. 1. I am always willing to admit it when I make a mistake * True False 2. I always try to practice what I preach * True False 3. I never resent being asked a favour * True False 4. I have never deliberately said something that hurt someone’s feelings * True False 5. I like to gossip at times * True False 6. There have been occasions when I took advantage of someone * True False 7. I sometimes try to get even, rather than forgive and forget * True False 8. At times I have really insisted on having things my own way * True False 9. There have been occasions when I felt like smashing things * True False 10. I have never been annoyed when people express ideas very different from my own * True False 10. I have never been annoyed when people express ideas very different from my own * True False 10. I have never been annoyed when people express ideas very different from my own * True False 10. I have never been annoyed when people express ideas very different from my own * True False 10. I have never been annoyed when people express ideas very different from my own * True False 10. I have never been annoyed when people express ideas very different from my own * True False THIRD TEST: PERSONAL COMMUNICATION STYLE A * 1. I like action. 2. I deal with problems in a systematic way. B * 3. I believe that teams are more effective than individuals. 4. I enjoy innovation very much C * 5. I am more interested in the future than in the past. 6. I enjoy working with people. D * 7. I like to attend well-organized group meetings. 8. Deadlines are important for me. E * 9. I cannot stand procrastination. 10. I believe that new ideas have to be tested before being used. F * 11. I enjoy the stimulation of interaction with others. 12. I am always looking for new possibilities. G * 13. I want to set up my own objectives. 14. When I start something, I go through until the end. H * 15. I basically try to understand other people’s emotions. 16. I do challenge people around me. I * 17. I look forward to receiving feedback on my performance. 18. I find the step-by-step approach very effective. J * 19. I think I am good at reading people. 20. I like creative problem solving. K * 21. I extrapolate and project all the time. 22. I am sensitive to others’ needs. L * 23. Planning is the key to success. 24. I become impatient with long deliberations. M * 25. I am cool under pressure. 26. I value experience very much. N * 27. I listen to people. 28. People say that I am a fast thinker. O * 29. Cooperation is a key word for me. 30. I use logical methods to test alternatives. P * 31. I like to handle several projects at the same time. 32. I always question myself. Q * 33. I learn by doing. 34. I believe that my head rules my heart. R * 35. I can predict how others may react to a certain action. 36. I do not like details. S * 37. Analysis should always precede action. 38. I am able to assess the climate of a group. T * 39. I have a tendency to start things and not finish them up. 40. I perceive myself as decisive. U * 41. I search for challenging tasks. 42. I rely on observation and data. V * 43. I can express my feelings openly. 44. I like to design new projects. W * 45. I enjoy reading very much. 46. I perceive myself as a facilitator. X * 47. I like to focus on one issue at a time. 48. I like to achieve. Y * 49. I enjoy learning about others. 50. I like variety. Z * 51. Facts speak for themselves. 52. I use my imagination as much as possible. AA * 53. I am impatient with long, slow assignments. 54. My mind never stops working. AB * 55. Key decisions have to be made in a cautious way. 56. I strongly believe that people need each other to get work done. AC * 57. I usually make decisions without thinking too much. 58. Emotions create problems. AD * 59. I like to be liked by others. 60. I can put two and two together very quickly. AE * 61. I try out my new ideas on people. 62. I believe in the scientific approach. AF * 63. I like to get things done. 64. Good relationships are essential. AG * 65. I am impulsive. 66. I accept differences in people. AH * 67. Communicating with people is an end in itself. 68. I like to be intellectually stimulated. AI * 69. I like to organize. 70. I usually jump from one task to another. AJ * 71. Talking and working with people is a creative art. 72. Self-actualization is a key word for me. AK * 73. I enjoy playing with ideas. 74. I dislike wasting my time. AL * 75. I enjoy doing what I am good at. 76. I learn by interacting with others. AM * 77. I find abstractions interesting and enjoyable. 78. I am patient with details. AN * 79. I like brief, to the point statements. 80. I feel confident in myself. Any Comments? If you are human, leave this field blank. Submit Δ
