RAS

Most people seem to be more aggressive and assertive than I am *

I have hesitated to make or accept dates because of “shyness.” *

When the food served at a restaurant is not done to my satisfaction, I complain about it to the waiter or waitress *

I am careful to avoid hurting other people’s feelings, even when I feel that I have been injured *

If a salesperson has gone to considerable trouble to show me merchandise that is not quite suitable, I have a difficult time saying “No.” *

When I am asked to do something, I insist upon knowing why. *

There are times when I look for a good, vigorous argument. *

. I strive to get ahead as well as most people in my position. *

To be honest, people often take advantage of me *

I enjoy starting conversations with new acquaintances and strangers. *

I often don’t know what to say to people I find attractive. *

I will hesitate to make phone calls to business establishments and institutions. *

I would rather apply for a job or for admission to a college by writing letters than by going with personal interviews. *

I find it embarrassing to return merchandise. *

If a close and respected relative were annoying me, I would smother my feelings rather than express my annoyance. *

I have avoided asking questions for fear of sounding stupid. *

During an argument, I am sometimes afraid that I will get so upset that I will shake all over. *

If a famed and respected lecturer makes a comment which I think is incorrect, I will have the audience hear my point of view as well. *

I avoid arguing over prices with clerks and salespeople. *

When I have done something important or worthwhile, I manage to let others know about it. *

I am open and frank about my feelings. *

If someone has been spreading false and bad stories about me, I see him or her as soon as possible and “have a talk” about it. *

I often have a hard time saying “No.” *

I tend to bottle up my emotions rather than make a scene. *

I complain about poor service in a restaurant and elsewhere. *

When I am given a compliment, I sometimes just don’t know what to say. *

If a couple near me in a theatre or at a lecture were conversing rather loudly, I would ask them to be quiet or to take their conversation elsewhere. *

Anyone attempting to push ahead of me in a line is in for a good battle. *

I am quick to express an opinion. *

There are times when I just can’t say anything. *