Couples Psychometric/ Assessment Tests – Love Language and Sexual Awareness Couples Psychometric Tests 2 IMPORTANT: It is necessary to complete the forms with what you genuinely feel today, rather than what you hope to feel or what is considered right. This will help the analysis and increase the tendency to achieve your goals based on the result User Code * Gender * Male Female FIRST TEST: BASIC LOVE LANGUAGE EFFECTIVENESS TEST INSTRUCTIONS: Kindly complete this form by rating yourself against the statements below with 1 being the statement that least describes you and 10 being the statement that most describe your reality 1. I feel unloved when I am talked down & could easily withdraw because I am highly sensitive to words especially from I truly love * 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 2. I love it when good words are used on me so that I would do anything to retain the person * 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 3. I am very good with words that I don’t mind flattering people to make them feel good * 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 4. I love it when the person I love spoils me with gifts * 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 5. I love to spoil anyone I like with gifts as well because it is my way of telling them I always think about them * 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 6. I cherish and appreciate whatever people give to me once it is consistent even if it is not expensive * 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 7. I love it when I am cuddled because I feel loved when I am touched * 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 8. I could sometimes feel vulnerable & unhappy when I don’t get the touch I want from my spouse * 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 9. I love to hold people close when they need me because it is my way of expressing affection * 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 10. I love it when my spouse helps me with whatever I am doing and I could feel unloved when he/she constantly declines * 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 11. I love to be there for others and can work my socks off just to be sure they are okay and things go well * 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 12. I have strong love and affection for people who can serve me faithfully without complaints * 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 13. I always want to be with my spouse because I miss him/ her when we are not together * 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 14. My best moments are the times spent together with my spouse and I long for inseparable friendship * 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 15. I wish I could go everywhere with my spouse and sometimes feel bad when he/she has to go on trips we can’t go together * 1 2 3 4 5 6 7 8 9 10 SECOND TEST: SEXUAL AWARENESS ASSESSMENT TEST INSTRUCTION: – The items listed below refer to the sexual aspects of people’s lives. Please read each item carefully and decide to what extent it is characteristic of you. Give each item a rating of how much it applies to you by using the following scale: A = Not at all characteristic of me = Slightly characteristic of me C = Somewhat characteristic of me D = Moderately characteristic of me E = Very characteristic of me 1. I am very aware of my sexual feelings * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 2. I wonder whether others think I am sexy * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 3. I’m assertive about the sexual aspects of my life * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 4. I’m very aware of my sexual motivations * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 5. I am concerned about the sexual appearance of my body * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 6. I am not very direct about voicing my sexual desires * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 7. I am always trying to understand my sexual feelings * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 8. I know immediately when others consider me sexy * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 9. I am somewhat passive about expressing my sexual desires * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 10. I am very alert to changes in my sexual desires * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 11. I am quick to sense whether others think I am sexy * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 12. I do not hesitate to ask for what I want in a sexual relationship * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 13. I am very aware of my sexual tendencies * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 14. I usually worry about making a good sexual impression on others * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 15. I’m the type of person who insists on having my sexual desires met * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 16. I think about my sexual motivations more than most people do * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 17. I’m concerned about what other people think of my sex appeal * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 18. When it comes to sex, I usually ask for what I want * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 19. I reflect about my sexual desires a lot * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 20. I never seem to know when I am turning others on * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 21. If I were sexually interested in someone , I’d let that person know * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 22. I am very aware of the way my mind works when I am sexually aroused * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 23. I rarely think of my sex appeal * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 24. If I were to have sex with someone, I’d let my partner take the initiative * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 25. I know what turns me on sexually * A = Not at all characteristic of me B = Slightly characteristic of me C = Somewhat characteristic of me D = Moderately characteristic of me E = Very characteristic of me 26. I don’t care what others think of my sexuality * A = Not at all characteristic of me B = Slightly characteristic of me C = Somewhat characteristic of me D = Moderately characteristic of me E = Very characteristic of me 27. I don’t let others tell me how to run my sex life * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 28. I rarely think about the sexual aspects of my life * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 29. I know when others think I am sexy * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 30. If I were to have sex with someone, I’d let my partner take the initiative * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 31. I don’t think of my sexuality very much * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 32. Other people’s opinions of my sexuality don’t matter very much to me * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 33. I would ask about sexually-transmitted diseases before having sex with someone * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 34. I don’t consider myself a very sexual person * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 35. I am with others I want to look sexy * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me 36. If I wanted to practice “safe sex” with someone I would insist on doing so * 1 = Not at all characteristic of me 2 = Slightly characteristic of me 3 = Somewhat characteristic of me 4 = Moderately characteristic of me 5 = Very characteristic of me Any Comments If you are human, leave this field blank. Submit Δ
